Question:
Who is/isn't appropriate to use as a reference on a job application?
Alex
2011-09-30 17:59:43 UTC
I'm in college and I haven't had very many "real" jobs, but I've been starting to apply to places and I'm really confused about who is and isn't appropriate to use as a reference. For example, for the last 2 years, I have nannied for my cousins (watching their children while they work) while also going to school - so while I did work for them techinically, it seems wrong to use them as a reference since they are family. So who are good and bad people to use as references? If you don't have many past employment type references, what types of people should you ask to be references for you? Thanks!
Six answers:
Kittye-Marie
2011-09-30 18:05:41 UTC
Depending the job you are applying for they may ask you for personal/familiar referances anyway. In my experiance the best people to use are the ones that have good things to say about you and ones that gave you an actual paycheck. Under the table jobs may not be considered real jobs.
anonymous
2016-03-18 08:58:12 UTC
No dude, unless the job requires you to be physically fit for the job it won't. Getting a job is about your resume how you present yourself for the first time to the employer. I would suggest a tie and possibly a suit. Make sure you clean yourself up really good and don't have any Body odder. Brush your teeth and shave your face. Be aware of how you act and try to see yourself in the third person. Sometimes it just takes awhile to get the job you want. If you have a video camera sit down and do a fake interview. Watch it, you can then check your posture, eye contact, and body language. You'll also help yourself and your body if you lose the weight now. Before its too late. Watch the movie called "super size me" and stay away from fast food. You'll feel so much better. If you have to have something quick eat, subway. Something off the 6gram of fat menu. You'll get to eat more anyway. P.S. At the end of the movie it will show you what that food does to your mind/self esteem. Trust me you feel better if you don't eat it.
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There are plenty of overweight people out there who are employed. You've gotten some good suggestions. Here are some of mine. 1. It's a rare person who doesn't have to deal with some anxieties about job interviews, whether it is appearance-related, grade-related, employment history-related, etc. There are no perfect applicants out there. Remember that during the whole process. 2. Do everything you can to look clean cut. That image works for most employers. For men, that would include a short haircut, clean shaven, no earrings, etc. Find the perfect interview outfit. Nicely shined shoes, pressed pants, a suit and jacket if appropriate. The preppy look works well for most office environments. Once you get the perfect interview outfit, set it aside and save it for just that purpose. In general navy is the best suit color. A nice pen and a nice portfolio might be appropriate. Always arrive on time. Sometimes it helps to do a practice run to find the place ahead of time. 2. Check out books on interviewing. Rehearse answers to frequently asked questions. Think about past work-related accomplishments that you might be asked about. Don't bad-mouth former employers at all or say anything negative about past situations. People don't want to hire whiners. If they ask why your leaving your current position say something like you'd like new challenges, increased responsibility, higher salary, something to that affect. Check out the books in that regards. Act enthused. People want to hire people who want the job. Even if you are not sure, talk like you are excited about the opportunity. You can always decide later after you get an offer. Ask them what a typical day is like, what they like best about working for the employer. Interviewers like to talk about themselves sometimes. 3. Make sure your resume is error-free. Consider tailoring your resume to different types of positions. Borrow some of the buzz words off employee ads to describe yourself. For example, if you see ads asking for high-energy, motivated, individuals with excellent intepersonal skills, use something like that on your resume to describe the kind of person you are. 4. Make sure they see you as someone high energy and hard working. I think a stereotype of someone overweight is that they are lazy and slow. Try not to walk real slow if possible. I've known some really sucdesful overweight professionals and they always dressed well, seemed energetic, spoke with enthusiasm, etc. That really helps. Don't forget to smile and make eye contact. A firm but not constricting handshake is good. If given an opportunity let them know how hard-working, energetic and efficient you are. 5. Ask each interviewer for a business card afterwards if they haven't already given you one. As soon as possible after the interview send a letter to each interviewer thanking them for the opportunity to interview. Reiterate the interest in the position and how you feel you can help them. That really is the bottom line, they want someone to help them. 6. If for no reason other than your health, I would suggest walking to help your weight. I know very few people who haven't dealt with weight issues sometimes in their lives. 7. Have some references if asked. Try asking people you have worked with in the past or teachers, etc. Make sure they can give a good response. There's a job out there with your name on it Ryan. I don't know which one it is, but God does. Do your best, keep the faith, and trust God to lead you to it. He will. God bless you.
anonymous
2011-09-30 18:43:55 UTC
Maybe a school teacher/counsellor but try one or two of your better employers, even though the jobs haven't been "real." Many prospective employers look at attitude to work, willingness to go the extra mile, etc, so it could be worth trying these people.
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2011-09-30 18:02:29 UTC
References are Teachers, your Minister or other Business People NOT related to you.

You are to get someones permission before you use them as a reference.


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